Frequently Asked Questions

1 I’m single, is this right for me?
Yes, yes and yes! Being erotically alive and connected has nothing to do with being in a relationship with a partner or lover. We believe each individual sets their own table for sexual satisfaction, whether single or in a partnership.

2 How do I get my sexual needs met?
First of all, no one outside of you can meet your sexual needs unless YOU know what those needs are. This immersive mentorship-style program gives you all the tools you need to uncover the full menu of what really turns you on (and turns you off). Get the permission to claim your consensual pleasure and live your pleasure!

8 in-depth modules with over 70 easy-to-digest and actionable video trainings take you on a journey of sexual awakening and empowerment, transforming your life, not just your sex life, but your entire relationship to sexual health and pleasure.

3 My desires seem weird to me. Am I normal?
No matter what you find “hot” or stimulating, we promise you: we’ve seen it all. You’re welcome here, and yes, you are normal. Unfortunately, society has a way of making people feel weird if they aren’t into the standard, vanilla perception of sex portrayed in the media. 

But sex isn’t "one size fits all", and people aren’t either. One person’s worst nightmare is someone else’s ultimate fantasy. We’re not here to judge. We’re just here to help people accept themselves, celebrate their uniqueness, and embrace consensual crafted and fulfilling sex lives.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Consent is at the foundation of our work!  In our world, you must have or develop skills to honor the boundaries of others and the awareness to know your own, so you can clearly declare your “Hell Yes!” and “Hell No!” in all areas of life, especially when it comes to sex and intimacy.

There are many ways to live out taboo fantasies.  What we do not accept in our community is when you live out your desires in non-consensual ways that cause harm to others. That does NOT fly in our community.

4 How can an online course teach me about pleasure, orgasms, and intimacy?
Unlike so many online courses, we deliver 8 in-depth modules educating you with somatic, visual teachings about all things sex-related from a deeply researched, professional angle. Our trained coaches and our meticulously studied and tested Blueprint Methodology are truly unique and revolutionary in the world-sex education.  

This program takes you on a step-by-step journey to understand your entire, 360-degree eroticism.  You get powerful, brief video lessons that give you fun practices you can put to use right away.

You experience quick wins that show up what’s possible and we give you easy-to-apply practices so you always have something to explore.  And you can explore it all at your own level of comfort.

This information and these practices, paired with your membership, are delivered in an accepting, open-minded, sex-positive community, which creates the perfect virtual environment for people to learn ALL about sex, pleasure, and intimacy, not just one little part of it.

5 Memberships are one per person.
You can purchase a partner’s membership at a special price.  Simply follow the links at checkout.  You can enroll your partner for full membership for a lower tuition.  We change this pricing from time to time.

6 I’m shy about this topic. Do I have to share?
The only thing we require is that you say “Yes” to our community rules when you join the group and we really want you to say “Hi” in an introductory post.

7 Is the course mine to keep?
Once you have paid in full, the course is yours to keep for life.

Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ Course is delivered in our Mighty Networks platform and will give you access to our Erotic Freedom Club. The classes, coaching sessions, bonuses and special treats that are part of Erotic Freedom Club are only available to active members of the club.

For those who choose the Payment Plan: If you take the payment plan option and do not complete your payments, you will lose access to the course and there will be no refund for the monthly payments you have made while you have been a member.

8 How am I billed for the program?
Your Credit Card statement will say “Jaiya, Inc.” for the charges for this program.

If you choose the payment plan option, you will be billed every 30 days for your next payment.

If your credit card number changes or you need to change your payment method for any reason, it is your responsibility to update our records.

There is a 72-hour cancellation period from when you first enroll.

You will not be refunded for any monthly payments made towards your tuition. Essentially each month you make your payment you continue to have access for that month.

9 How secure is my payment information?
By default, we wouldn’t be able to sell ANYTHING online without having an SSL Certificate (which allows for a secure connection from web server to a browser), on top of that we are PCI DSS Compliant (Payment Card Industry Data Security Standard), which is another level of security to comply with in order to use our Payment Gateway online. You are in very good hands!

10 Is there a live aspect to the course? What kind of support will I get?
Yes! Although the material for the course is completely pre-recorded and intended to be a self-paced program, there are many live aspects of dynamic and interactive support! It’s not just online learning…

By subscribing to the course you also receive membership to Erotic Freedom Club, our exclusive online, sex-positive community filled with like-minded, supportive seekers and many of our Erotic Blueprint Coaches™ ready to support and serve.

11 When does the course begin?
The course begins as soon as you are a “Hell Yes!”. The course materials are available to you directly after subscribing  – it can take up to 72 hours to get you into Erotic Freedom Club.  Please follow ALL the steps that we send to you in emails after you have joined the course.

All you need to do is enroll, follow the emailed instructions and get into Erotic Freedom Club!!  

Then we ask that you create your profile in the Club and then dive right into Module One of the Course.

12 Is the course self-paced, or do participants have to keep up with a preset pace?
This program is designed for self-paced learning, so you can go as fast or as slow as you need. It is intended to be taken no quicker than one module per week over the course of 8 weeks so you have a chance to allow the lessons to really sink in and for pleasure to fully integrate into your life.

13 How much time is needed for practice/assignments during the course?
We have broken each of the 8 modules into several, short classes (5 to 15 minutes each) with fun and playful action steps along the way.

The ideal way to take this course is by expanding into more pleasure throughout your entire life. So, the real answer is 24/7! Opening to greater connection and pleasure throughout your daily experience.

14 Are the videos downloadable?
As a member of the Club, you can revisit the course material whenever you want without having to search through your old computer files to find it. 

You will also be notified if at any point the course materials are updated or enhanced in any way. The worksheets, however, are available for download.

15 Is this some sort of sex cult, like in the movies?
Not at all. 

We have professional, highly trained coaches that give advice and feedback no matter what your sexual journey looks like (whether you’re monogamous or polyamorous, straight, gay, bi, queer or anyplace else on the spectrum, you have a home here.)  

As long as you’re committed to conscientious, consensual and empowered sexuality, you’ll be in the right place.

The Erotic Blueprints are based on over 25 years of Somatic Sexological study, working with thousands of clients, including clinical study and research. 

16 What if I feel underrepresented in the community, as a person who identifies as queer or non-binary?
We need you!!

The Blueprint Breakthrough, Inc. has a personal and professional goal of evolving our framework, language and sentiments to be progressively inclusive for all types of folx. We are actively working on this and had a diversity specialist on set of the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course during our entire shoot making sure we were using inclusive language and neutralizing gender-specific associations.

However, this is a work in progress and honestly, we can’t do it without you! We need more leaders and people who are willing to be seen in our community, people who are normally underrepresented. We want to celebrate you!

17 Will there be any nudity or live action webcamming?
There will be no live nude webcamming and although there is no nudity in the recorded material, they do generate significant heat and demonstrate a wide range of pleasure possibilities for you to try.

There are occasional bonuses that are explicit and we do our best to warn you about if there is material that we think might be triggering.  We ask that you take personal responsibility for your own level of comfort with the materials.

It is required that you are 18 years of age or older to participate in any of our course offerings.