Blueprint Essentials

Are you avoiding “The Sex Talk” with your lover?

Breakthrough the #1 barrier to your sexual fulfillment.

You’re not alone:

56% of couples say they feel uncomfortable talking about sexual issues with their spouse (Kinsey Institute Study) often due to embarrassment, shame, or fear of conflict.
33% Don’t even talk about sex at all! (Journal of Marriage and Family)
Only 24% said they could always be honest with their partner about their sex life. (American Sexual Health Association)

End the Communication Breakdown!

Blueprint Essentials gives you proven techniques to:

Understand how your Blueprint type actually shows up in your daily intimacy
Learn how to share your results with a partner—without shame, awkwardness, or conflict
Identify the common blocks that stop your Blueprint from thriving—and how to move past them
Start building your personalized Pleasure Map so you can feel seen, celebrated, and desired

You are wired for pleasure!

Every cell in your body

has pleasure receptors.

But here is the problem...
Years of not getting your needs met.
Changes due to life’s stresses.
Shifting libido.
Mismatched desires.
Not knowing what turns you on.
Or how to talk about it.

These roadblocks kill your connection to arousal, attraction and turn-on.

Our easy, fun and nurturing practices give you the ability to listen to your body’s truths - what it wants and what it needs.

As we guide you into this deeper, compassionate connection with your body, the stories of, “I’m broken,” “I don’t deserve pleasure,” “orgasms are for other people,” and “I missed my chance for pleasure and passion in this lifetime” can be replaced by “I’m whole and complete just as I am,” “I deserve pleasure,” “I’m naturally orgasmic,” and “I have all the pleasure and passion I desire!”.

Discover the subtle art of listening to your body, and awaken to the arousal and turn-on your body naturally craves.

Pleasure is your birthright!

But to get what you want, you need to learn what it is and how to ask for it.

Do you feel hesitant, nervous, shy or flat out freaked out to explore and ask for what you want in bed? It’s not your fault!

We have a culture of shame and secrecy surrounding sex and intimacy.

Were you taught that it’s okay to explore your own body and get turned on?
Did anyone teach you how to ask for what you want?
Did anyone show you about all the pleasure available in your body?

If you’re like most people, your answer to these questions is sadly, “No!”

It’s time to reclaim your sexual power, right?

Blueprint Essentials gives you a gentle path to explore your desires, confidently and compassionately speak your authentic truth, end the painful cycles of shame, blame, and people pleasing habits, where your needs get left behind.

Discover empowering communication skills, how to use consent, boundaries, body reveals, and pleasure games to…

Confidently Claim Your “Hell Yes!” and “Hell No!”

Differing drives and desires

can create tension, frustration and resignation.

“It’s hopeless! We’re just sexually incompatible.”

“We want different things.”

“They don’t know how to meet my needs. I won’t get what I want.”

These are common fears and complaints we hear when people come to us for help.

You’re not ‘sexually incompatible,”

you have simply never learned to speak each other's erotic language of desire and fulfillment!

Breakthrough these roadblocks with ‘The Translation Effect’ of The Erotic Blueprints®. If your lover spoke French and you spoke German, is it hopeless?

No! You would learn how to speak each other’s language.

Become Their Ultimate Lover…

The Blueprint Essentials opens the door to becoming the ultimate lover for your partner.

Understanding that their map of arousal and satisfaction is different from yours and giving you tools to navigate their body’s pleasure terrain. Become the expert of their pleasure and inspire them to delicious surrender and otherworldly climax.

Guide Your Lover to Master Your Erotic Instrument…

Mastery in any art takes patience, practice and time. As you understand the subtleties of your pleasure, the different notes, tempos, and strokes that bring forth your orgasmic expression…

You gain the skills to guide your lover to play your arousal like the finely tuned instrument that you are. You can finally give them the score to your ecstatic crescendo!

The Blueprint Essentials Online Program (Value $147.00)
22 Video Trainings with Immediate, practical tools to discover The Erotic Blueprints® foundational practices and skills to deepen connection and expand into greater satisfaction.

Brief Video Trainings with Practical Exercises: Apply what you’re learning as you go. Each content rich lesson gives you a fun and empowering practice to apply right away.
Pleasure Drills: Follow along, learn at your pace… at home or on date night. Feel your pleasure, Speak your pleasure, Live your pleasure!
Discovery and Integration Worksheets: Integrate the teachings with written support materials.

Bonus: Live Masterclasses: Personalized, Expert Coaching (Value $197.00)

Support Call: Wednesday, September 3rd, 5pm PST
Support Call: Saturday, September 20th, 11am PST

* All Calls will be recorded with replays available for members of the program.

BONUS! Desires Fulfilled: A Communication Masterclass (Value 97.00)
Turn arguments into moments of harmony, communication roadblocks into understanding, and confidently express your needs… all with this 2-part video masterclass

BONUS! The Sex Communication Checklist (Value $47.00)
Empower yourself in the bedroom, as you define your specific desires! Getting to your “Hell Yes!” and “Hell No” frees you up to feel safe and play to the edges. This tool also breaks through sexual incompatibility and helps you know exactly where you and your lover want to play.

BONUS! The Pleasure Expansion Toolkit (Value $97.00)
Most of us have gatekeepers keeping us from full erotic expression and this dampens our pleasure. We call these Shadows of the Blueprints. Begin to dismantle these pleasure brakes that keep you stuck with these empowering bonus trainings.

The Pleasure Blueprint Community Membership (Value = Priceless)
A safe place to be seen and celebrated (if you desire) as you expand into this vulnerable exploration. There are free trainings for our members and our other members are excited to support you on your journey. Confidentiality, Consent, Boundaries, Care, Curiosity, and Celebration are how we roll!

FAQ – Good to Know:

You must be 18 years or older to participate in our programs and services: by signing up for our trainings, you attest that you are 18 years or older and have the full rights, as an adult, in your county, country, municipality, to participate in these programs.
Is Live Coaching Part of this Program? Yes, when you join by Wednesday August 20th by 2pm PST, you will get a live Masterclass kick off call at 3pm PST Wednesday evening and there are 2 more live support calls, with expert level coaching, in September to help you expand and integrate your leanings.
Is this course explicit or graphic? No. Essentials focuses on mindset, language, and simple embodiment drills. It’s educational and respectful.
Will this fix medical issues or trauma? Essentials is not medical advice or therapy. You’ll learn tools to reduce pressure and communicate needs while we encourage clinical support where appropriate.
Can I do this solo? Yes. Being solo is the perfect time to learn who you are as an erotic being, so you are fully empowered on that next date or as you dive into a new primary relationship. Stop doing what you’ve always done and build a new path towards sexual satisfaction. There are self‑pleasure, communication, and reflection practices built in.
How long does it take? It’s self‑paced. Most people complete the three modules within 1–2 weeks and revisit the practices over time. The course and community and live, interactive elements we offer help you to dive more deeply into these tools and practices to integrate them and better live a life of connection and pleasure.

Not just an online program:

Total Value: $585.00

FAQ – Good to Know: