3 Tools to End “Sexual Incompatibility”

You DO NOT have to choose between the person you love, the commitment you made, and the pleasure you desire and deserve.

No matter how different your sexual needs, wants, and appetites may be from those of your partner, there is a path to mutual satisfaction.

It IS possible to solve sexual incompatibility without all the sacrifice, thus healing your dead bedroom - forever - by reigniting the lost emotional connection, spark and PASSION you’ve been begging and working so hard to find again with the person you love.

You DO NOT have to choose between the person you love, the commitment you made, and the pleasure you desire and deserve.

No matter how different your sexual needs, wants, and appetites may be from those of your partner, there is a path to mutual satisfaction.

I hope you have not hit the stage of “Sexless Marriage” or the “Dead Bedroom” in your partnership.

I hope you’re not even on the pathway there.

But the passionless partnership, the dead bedroom and the best friends and roommates scenario are a very real and all too common problem for many couples.

You love your partner but you’re feeling desperate or hopeless, because your sex life is lackluster, disappointing, painful or perhaps it doesn’t even exist.

If you’ve been struggling to connect, finding yourself frustrated, stuck in the same, pointless arguments or not even talking about your intimacy any more…

Feeling like your partner doesn’t care about your needs and desires, or about you at all…

Learn 3 unexpected, REAL SECRETS to HAVING the fulfilling connection and sexual satisfaction you desire and deserve…

“Eroticism is the antidote to death”
~ Esther Perel - World renowned couples therapist

Jaiya and I understand from first hand knowledge just how hopeless this can feel.

We had a 3 year run after the birth of our son where all the passion disappeared.

We loved each other, but as she craved sexual connection, my libdo had tanked…

The “dead bedroom” story had become our story. We were at the precipice of ending our relationship.

At that time, Jaiya was already a world renowned sex expert, and even we, with all this knowledge, couldn’t figure out how to reignite the flame.

Until we did!

If you’re like us at that stage…

You’ve tried literally everything and you’ve probably done a ton of exhausting work to try and solve this issue already…

Asking for what you need
Googling like crazy for solutions and answers
Suggesting new positions, toys, games
Reading all the articles and books
Ultimatums (Yikes!!)
Personal therapy
And so much more…

You’ve been buying all the books, the courses, the therapy, the programs, the retreats…

Trying to find a way to “unlock” this hidden desire and libido in your partner…

Or to uncover that passion once again inside yourself.

And NOTHING CHANGES!

You feel like you have no way to get what you truly need within your relationships and a critical piece of you is starving. Like you’re shriveling on the vine and leaving your best years behind you.

Are you supposed to just give up and starve for the rest of their life, because you DO NOT WANT TO BREAK UP?

If you desire more sex, frequent orgasms and your lover to crave you like you crave them, you’re NOT shallow, “too much”, gross or a “sex addict!”

You deserve to be sexually fulfilled, validated and desired

You CAN rekindle turn-on and passion. You can experience frequent, fulfilling sex.

Typically You May Have a Low Libido, Low Sex Drive. You May Even Feel You Are Asexual and Don’t Often, If Ever, Crave Sex.

At this stage, in your relationship you see every advance or touch made by your partner as a bid to get sex - and you’re not necessarily wrong, even if your partner doesn’t want to admit it.

But this dance is exhausting.

You either put up your guard and deny connection…

Or you give in, letting your boundaries be crossed again, and have ‘sympathy sex’ just to give them what they want.

But this just builds more resentment in your body.

Typically You May Have a Low Libido, Low Sex Drive. You May Even Feel You Are Asexual and Don’t Often, If Ever, Crave Sex.

At this stage, in your relationship you see every advance or touch made by your partner as a bid to get sex - and you’re not necessarily wrong, even if your partner doesn’t want to admit it.

But this dance is exhausting.

You either put up your guard and deny connection…

Or you give in, letting your boundaries be crossed again, and have ‘sympathy sex’ just to give them what they want.

But this just builds more resentment in your body.

Sex feels monotonous, like a chore, or simply not worth the effort.

Maybe you’ve even told your lover exactly what you want and need, and they don’t ever seem to approach you the way you ask them to.

You don’t feel seen by your partner, or worse, you feel like a piece of meat.

You’d love to “want it” as much as they do.

You love them and you want to find a way to give them what they want so you could finally bridge this mismatch divide.

You’ve asked them to explore alternate ways to connect but it feels like their ego gets easily bruised, like you’re suggesting something is wrong with THEM and THEY are the problem…

They resent this, because they want to be accepted as they are.

And so do YOU!

Ugh!

This all feels like an endless cycle of dissatisfaction with no way out.

Stop the madness!

It Is Possible
Claim the Pleasure you Deserve

As one of our students shared…

“I went into deep learning and found an amazing language and set of tools created by Jaiya and Ian that enabled me to feel like I was enough, like I could be myself and feel deep pleasure in my body. I needed to feel what it could be like to respect myself and others for who they are and where they're at in order to explore my inner desires and finally shine.”

~ Sara Storimer

During this 2-Hour training, we do not promise to fix all the challenges you face and instantly provide you with a satisfying sex life filled with orgasmic pleasure.

We do promise to give you empowering tools that can help put an end to the frustration of so-called ‘sexual incompatibility.’

We’ll help you replace frustration and hopelessness with rekindled desire and hopeful possibilities.

What we’ve seen from all the years of breakthrough work we’ve done with our clients is that the typical solutions offered to solve these challenges are either bad, sometimes harmful advice, or they miss the mark completely and don’t offer solutions that are satisfying or that work for all people in the relationship.

This journey is supposed to be fun, full of love and pleasure.

Come discover how…

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